My Journey to 50! - Oh, No…Thinking About Hair, Too?

Girls will forever be thinking about their hair. It doesn’t matter whether you’re 20 or 40 this is a feature that follows us around. For me right now, I decided to turn My Journey to 50 into a hair exploration, too!

In fact, I chose my style for 35, 40 and 45. Although I’m a little over-the-top in the detail department, I’m looking forward to the 50 hairstyle reveal. Comfort and ease are the key factors for me, right now. My stylist tries to convince me all of the time that longer hair is beautiful.

I totally agree with her. It’s just that it’s beautiful on someone else. I’ve never felt more free and attractive than when my hair was short. This is my opinion and my journey. Finding my way, and yours as well, is about listening to yourself.

If your hair or anything else becomes drudgery, is it worth it? No matter the compliments, I just want to enjoy as much of this time of life as possible. Loving the Speed of Life and all it…

Teen Conversations: Important Parental Moves

It's true that parents and teens often speak a different language!


This shouldn't discourage either from conversation. It is important not only to the relationship of the family. Keeping these lines of communication active promotes expression in the future.


Teens learn how to think critically and to verbalize their positions. Topics of these conversations can vary. The primary objective is to use the time wisely. Although the Speed of Life is challenging to families, it is essential that they maintain relationships in a healthy way. Conversation is a good tool for this!


Daily Lives


Some teens need to be encouraged to talk about the issues that trouble them. The things that occur daily are a part of these concerns. Setting aside time specifically for these conversations, shows interest and concern.


Current Events


There are confusing things happening in society. This is true for both parents and teens. Discussing current events nationally and internationally can help. The goal is not to figure out the world's problems. It's simply to pursue understanding and spark more conversation. 


The Future


The future is one of the things that troubles teens the most. Parents don't always understand because they've conquered their fears in some ways. Teens need and want direction for attaining the goals, whether short term or long term. Conversation could mean the difference between success and failure.


Let's start talking more. . .


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Finding Your Style

Everyone knows that there are far too many fashion magazines out there to choose from. Many point out what the season musts are for women. This sort of work serves to build a foundation, for those who don’t know what they like. There is nothing wrong with creating your own style and fashion. This may mean taking bits and pieces of trendy looks. Overall though, finding your style is about appreciating your beauty.

All of us are shaped differently and have a variety of terrific assets. Styles that accentuate are a tasteful way can be your own. Tailor them to include the colors and designs that you like best. Trying on a combination of ensembles is a great way to determine what looks good on your frame. Each season has its offering when it comes to fashion. Experiment with boutique, traditional and contemporary styles. Find what you love and wear it!

Here are some ensembles to consider:

Light flowery blouses / Textured vests / Designer print jeans

Long denim skirts / Straight collared shirts / Ruffled scarves

Extra-long tanks / Short graphic tees / Colored Capri shorts

Black Girls & Education

In previous articles, I’ve discussed some of the misconceptions related to race and education. Black girls in America have a lot to overcome when it comes to succeed in certain areas. Many people would be surprised to discover exactly what these girls are thinking about their own futures. I would imagine that the answers they’d find, would not fit their image of these girls.
education by Black girls in America.

Through a series of interviews, I’ve been able to scratch the surface on some of these topics. We all know that children are our future, as well as, the future of our country. Relying on them to propel the country, means investing in them now. Let’s take a look at some things that are being focused on about
 academically. Those that manage to find the key to making better grades, usually continue to do so.

Connecting with teachers

Teachers can either help or hinder students today. Having a good relationship with your educators is a tool for success. Black girls in many segments of the country are looking for ways to make this connection. It is important that teachers meet them in this process, so that both can achieve their goal in education.

Maintaining good gradesThese girls understand that the bulk of the responsibility for good grades falls to them. Not all Black girls have the encouragement that they need at home. This presents a struggle for them, in their pursuit of excelling

Go, Girls!

There are many groups around the country that have seen the lack of encouragement as it relates to girls. Unfortunately this is true no matter if we are talking about the issue of race or not. The fact is that girls need to be encouraged and inspired to achieve their goals. Popular songs and even commercials talk about our children being the future.

This is absolutely true! Girls deserve to hear that there are opportunities for them. These opportunities are in education, sports, music, etc. When you understand there are opportunities, it is easier to aim for a goal. Despite media outlets, stereotypical studies, and assumptions, there are girls out there who have high standards and goals.

These girls live in every community, in every city, in every state. Parents and role models have a responsibility to educate themselves on what's available to advance girls. Then they can pass on this information to children that want to achieve. In some instances, these opportunities may exist through camps, clubs, contests, and various other things.

Let's keep an eye out for these important tools! This is the best way to shape the future and the lives of the girls that will impact it.